Rosé Mansion

I visited the Rosé Mansion this weekend. I was actually supposed to be attending National Ice Cream Day hosted at the Pint Shop but after my experience at their tasting session, I decided to exchange my tickets for a new pop-up instead. I didn't want to experience more or less the same of what I already did twice. I figured the experience isn't going to be any different so why waste my time. $38 for a ticket was a little steep considering I knew what the space and experience was going to entail. The San Francisco location would've been better considering it gave you access to the museum. But the Pint Shop unfortunately is a very pint size version of the museum experience, for the same price. I figured my time would be better spent trying and discovering new places so I opted for the Rosé Mansion instead.

I actually heard of it from another Instagrammer, @urbanbling, who suggested it to me. She's an indie designer who does custom Swarovski strassing for your shoes and accessories. She actually worked on my first ever pair of Loubies that I decided to blow my first big girl paycheck on when I first graduated pharmacy school back in 2012. I still wear them to this day, with their most recent appearance in Paris with me at the Eiffel Tower, and they still hold up pretty well. Honestly, I think she did a better job than the store strassed version. The crystals shine brighter and there are less gaps in between crystals so they shine and glitter a lot better. Anyways, she's also a local New Yorker and visits pop-ups and desserts spots so our adventures often coincide with the same destinations. We're forever hitting up places #forthegram. 

The Rosé Mansion is a new pop-up in Manhattan based on rosé wine. It's another interactive art installation similar to the Museum of Ice Cream and the Egg House. (I know, I know, I still owe you guys a Museum of Ice Cream blog.) You start out on the ground floor and walk up a beautiful staircase to the 'mansion' where you learn about how wine is made and the different types. There are samplings of different wines throughout the rooms as well as different backdrops for your photos. Tickets were $45 and like all other experiences similar to this, are timed ticketed experiences sold on showclix. You have to buy tickets in advance and online only. You can't get in at the door without one. What's notably different about this pop-up as well, is that since it's alcohol themed, you need to be 21+ to enter, so ID is required. 

To be quite honest, I'm not a big drinker. Actually I don't drink at all, unless I'm at a wedding with an open bar then I'll get a cocktail because I'm already there and it's already paid for. But other than that, I rarely drink. I don't because waste of calories and not my cup of tea, honestly. Plus I bloat like crazy and gain weight pretty quickly from it. But I'm a sucker for these instagrammable experiences which my husband likes to call IG traps. I was pretty much there for the gram and nothing more. I did taste some of the rose available at the exhibit though. 

Before the Rosé Mansion, the Museum of Ice Cream was my favorite pop-up thus far. Right now, I would like to say the Rosé Mansion ranks right up there, if not better. The only thing really winning me still is the sprinkle pool but I would definitely have to say the Rosé Mansion might just blow it out of the water.  What's notably different is the quality of the rooms and how much work and detail is put into each. There is definitely enough rooms and instagrammable opportunities to pique your interest. I would definitely say compared to other pop-ups and prices I've paid, this one is the best bang for your buck. Especially since they're serving you alcohol and 8 different types. There's also a station where you can 'create' your own rosé by mixing different wines. What I definitely liked is that not only were there enough rooms to make this experience worth it, but that they put pretty much equal effort into each space. Some pop-ups, one room is really great and the rest are mediocre or just afterthoughts. This was the case with the Sunnyhues Happy Go Lucky exhibit I went to last month. The Diamond room was the pièce de résistance and the rest was just leftovers. But at the Rosé Mansion, nearly every room was carefully curated, I'd say. They also serve you enough wine throughout the tastings to amount to two glasses, but I think you can easily get more if you really wanted to. You can go back and forth to as many rooms as you'd like, unlike the MOIC, where you can only go forward, not backward. If you would like a little more of a certain wine from one particular room, I don't really see them denying you. And the amount they pour into your glass is a pretty decent amount too. 

The only negative I have to say, is not about the actual space, but about other attendees. This exhibit was definitely targeted more towards women and girls like to attend these things in big groups obviously for cute photos. Which I have no issue with, since I travel a lot with a big entourage when I'm around adventuring in the city. I knew what I signed up for so I understood that with exhibits like these, there will be lines and you have to be patient to wait your turn. In the swing/bathtub of roses room, there was 2 groups in front of me, one with about 6 girls and the other had 3. So you can see that both groups will take a bit of time before I can get to either photo op. The group of 6 girls was obviously taking longer since there was 6 girls total. When I finally got the swing set, they were still in the bathtub and the line was starting to grow even longer and more impatient. There was a really rude girl on line 4-5 people behind me screaming NEXT! NEXT NEXT! every 5 seconds. No one else was really being rude except her and even the girls in front of her looked embarassed as she tried to passive aggressively move the line along. She wasn't even a worker, just another impatient Instagram hoe. I get it, I'm slightly annoyed that I have to wait to, but instead of identifying the group that was causing the hold up and directly approaching them, she was rudely screaming NEXT! NEXT! NEXT! to me. I looked directly at her and shouted back "I JUST GOT HERE" and I guess that got her attention since she finally left and shut the hell up afterwards. I took my time and moved along thereafter. What I found out after from girls on the line behind me was that same hoe was being a hypocritical bitch and ended up holding up the line when she got her own chance at the bathtub. My only critique is that there should've been a worker there to help maintain the line and usher people along if there is a line forming but also diffuse people from getting rude at other attendees. Not for nothing, I shouldn't have to rush my own time just because the group in front of me took longer. I paid the same ticket price as any other IG hoe so I'm damn sure going to take my time.

Besides that I enjoyed this experience a lot, and despite not being big on alcoholic beverages. I would and could definitely recommend this experience if you're in the city this summer. It's easy to get to as well. It's basically right next the NY Public Library at Bryant Park. I had a lot of fun with friends and family taking photos.

The rest of the weekend feels like a blur despite being less than a week ago. I stayed at the Arlo Nomad this weekend, courtesy of my best friend Kerri. She was supposed to be in NYC this weekend to hang out and catch up but there were last minute hiccups and she wasn't able to make it. Unfortunately the room was nonrefundable so she passed the room onto me. The Arlo Nomad is a very minimalistic hotel when it comes to rooms, but still very clean and beautiful. It's perfect for solo travelers and young couples. It reminds me of the simplicity of Japan actually. I looked at photos on Instagram before I got there and fell in love with photos of girls waking up in NYC with a beautiful view. I was disappointed when I got there and realized the beds weren't actually pushed up against the windows like the photos misled me to believe. But then I realized that no hotel is really like this but that all the models move the beds themselves for the perfect shot for the gram. So you bet your bottom dollar I did that same thing. Having strong friends when you travel with an entourage helps a lot, hahaha. It was really something to wake up to the next morning though. Falling asleep with the Empire State building was really beautiful too as it was lit up in red, white and blue like a firecracker popsicle. I purposely left the curtains open so I could see the view as I woke up and it was just grand. It's funny how you appreciate these things later in life. I always had NYC at my fingertips but only now am I appreciating it for its beauty. The Arlo Nomad also had a bar at the top floor with a glass floor overlooking the streets of Manhattan. I enjoyed this as it was a taste of yet to come of the Skydeck in Chicago, which I leave for in about a week. I'm excited to see that. 

I also attended my first SoulCycle session, which my friend Kerri had booked for us but was nonrefundable so I had to go experience it without her since I'm Asian and don't like things going to waste. My impression? OMG, it was so overwhelming. It was intense! And then I find out from another friend who SoulCycles religiously that the teacher of my class was known for being intense. He's good but he's intense. Well that explains it. I thought I was going to die, hahaha. I bike at the gym but this was like being on a bike from hell. It felt like it was never going to end. It's funny how you could get into shape but still suck at another thing and feel so out of shape from it. There's so much to fitness than people think. There's always something new to learn and experience. I don't know if I would go back to SoulCycle on my own. I was seriously intimidated, hahaha. I couldn't even figure out how to get off the damn bike cause I couldn't unlock my shoes from it. Man, I'm such a noob. 

We had brunch at Union Fare on Sunday before the Rosé Mansion so I could finally experience it since we only had dinner there last time and I can definitely say this experience was much better than last time. There was no rude host and the waiters were super friendly and attentive. The food was delicious. I enjoyed their artisan Eggs Benedict and smashed toasts. I finally ordered their Fruity Pebbles croissant but was too full to finish it after the rest of the food. I took it home to eat the next day and it was delicious! I would definitely stop by again if I'm in the area. Everything was so good and fresh. 

I also finally visited and walked the Brooklyn Bridge. Another anomaly of things I had yet to do, despite being in NYC my entire life. It's a long trek but definitely worth it. I would like to go back during the day to photograph it as well. Maybe in the early morning to avoid crowds. The night views are really something though to see the city all lit up. It's beautiful. Sometimes I hate NYC when I visit other countries, and then other times I remember it's still beautiful in its own way. 

Oh, New York City. I'll always be a New York girl at heart. 

Heavenly Bodies & Whipped Cream

The title sounds misleading, like this is a kinky sex post but I assure you it is not. Last week I visited the Heavenly Bodies exhibit at the Metropolitan Museum, and then saw the Whipped Cream ballet at the theater.

Was it a week ago? I feel like I just did this but this summer is flying by faster than I want it to! There's still so much I want to do before the year is over but 2018 is zooming by. It's funny because when I first started the year I felt like it would never be over as I was impatient to see my results from my gym sessions and nothing was happening. Now I feel like I'm forever running out of time as the year is nearing its end. Isn't life funnny that way? When you're having a shitty time, time is going by so slow. But when you're busy and life is going fine, it feels like it's going so fast. My wedding was this way. The planning process felt like years but the actual day itself was over in a blink of an eye. 

The Heavenly Bodies exhibit is a collection of many high end fashion designers and their take on Catholic fashion. It premiered at the Met Gala earlier this year and is now on display for the public to view. It's actually very stunning and beautiful. I wish it was less crowded so I could've taken better photos of the dresses but it is still the Met museum and it's still the summer, despite that I went on a weekday and nearing closing. Plus it's a popular exhibit since it's a limited run. 

I'm not big on religion personally but I'm still a big fashion geek so I love seeing exhibitions like this. The detail, the color, the quality, the draping, the texture, the design. Man, it makes me hate my parents all over again for not allowing me to go to fashion school. But alas, I live it through my daily life with my self expression through my personal style. 

The Met is also my favorite museum. It's so big and grand and there's so much to see that I have never been able to explore the whole museum. And there's so much always changing. There's so many different things too from all over the world in there, so much culture and so much beauty. It's also a great museum because it's donation based for your ticket fare. You pay what you want, and of course, being a New Yorker and a thrifty college student still at heart, you know there's no way I'm paying full sticker price. Although it looks like until recently, now it's a "pay as you please" policy is only for residents in the tri-state area and you have to show ID. In the past, I simply just stated what I wanted to pay for my ticket and they didn't check any identification. But if you're there with a local resident, they can certainly buy your ticket for you if that helps at all. I highly recommend this museum if you're visiting from out of town and you love art and museums. My other favorite in NYC is the Museum of Natural History, which is also a donation based museum. This is a big fan favorite for kids too.

Later that evening, I attended the ballet to see Whipped Cream. This was my second ballet, my first being Romeo and Juliet back in February for a friend's birthday. I enjoyed Whipped Cream much more because it was simply pure eye candy. The costumes, the sets, the colors, the beauty! It was a candyland ballet. I wish I could dance so gracefully but alas, it is not in the cards. Something like that is usually practiced from a very young age, mixed with talent. I don't have the patience nor talent for something like that.

Whipped Cream is a really cute and whimsical ballet that reminded me of something between Alice in Wonderland and The Nutcracker. It's a story of a young boy obsessed with whipped cream so much that he gets sick from eating so much of it and fantasizes of a dreamworld candy wonderland. This is his escape where all things sweet come to life to rescue him from his nightmarish reality. For a boy though, he sure has a really pretty and girly fantasy world, hahaha.

My coworker saw Swan Lake a week prior to this and said that was beautiful too. Hopefully I can catch that next time they have it at the theater. Unfortunately, Whipped Cream had a very limited run in New York so if you missed it, just cross your fingers they come back. It's definitely worth a viewing. This day was a day all about the arts! I hope to explore more about art and theater in NYC soon and for years to come. So far this year I knocked off my goal of seeing a Broadway show and a ballet. My last is to see an opera!

When It Rains, It Pours

Sometimes I think I don't have a lot going on but when I take a step back, there's actually a lot going on. I also thought this year wasn't going to be so busy and that I was going to have a boring, quiet summer stuck in NY since (a) it's hard to take summer vacations at my job because I'm lower on the totem pole of vacation requests priority, (b) it's so expensive to travel in the summer and (c) I need time to recuperate from my Paris vacation financially. 

But despite being grounded in NY, I was still determined to have a fun summer and filled with activities. And I certainly did so and the summer is only beginning. Since I came home in May from Paris, nearly every day off has been filled with activities, trips to the city, birthdays, holidays, events, etc. I mean, NYC is my playground but June was probably a record for me in terms of how many times I visited. And contrary to what it looks like, NYC is actually quite a trek out for me. I'm pretty far out east on LI so it takes me about 2 hours or so to get into the city. But there isn't much to do on LI and despite all my NYC adventures, I'm forever discovering new things. I'm basically playing tourist in my own city this summer with all my adventures for the gram, going from one place to the next. I have a fresh outlook on my adventures, trying to experience and eat and see as many beautiful things as I can. My last visit with my friends, we had a list of about 10 places to hit up one day and I thought we'd only make it to 5 but nope, we did pretty much everything on my list and I even added some in towards the end of the day, hahaha! 

And surprise, surprise. Guess what, guys? I'm headed back there this weekend for yet another gram tour. This time my girl Kerri is in town visiting me from DC and she requested an entire weekend of adventures and I was pretty much like #saynomorefam. I have an ambitious list of adventures for this weekend so if you're stalking my IG stories, stay tuned. 

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It's only the beginning of July and my summer already has been pretty good filled with so much to do that I haven't had a minute to be home and and take care of my house. My living room, closet and bathroom looks like a mess. The last time I cleaned honestly was 3 weeks ago when the boy came home from a work trip. This is terrible, lol. Adulting is hard to keep up with when you're always keeping busy.

The funny thing is, my mom is really mad at me. She thinks I'm wasting my time because I'm not following the adulting timeline. You know, that cliche of get married and have kids. I did most of what I was supposed to - finish school, find a good job, buy a house and get married, but the kids part, I'm still holding off. Truth is, I still have no idea if I want them. The boy and I both agreed we're still too selfish in our lives right now to enter that next step. Or if we ever want to enter that step. And it's not that we're scared or irresponsible. Everyone knows that I would probably be pretty good at the 'mom' role since I take care of all my friends and family like a mom. And my husband is honestly the cutest. I see him with my nephews and I see how he is with family and other kids and it's absolutely adorable. He's responsible and sweet, but smart. He knows not to spoil either.
But the problem with this timeline is that it's not for everybody and that's okay. Not everyone needs to have kids and you also don't need to have kids organically. Some people believe they can never love another child other than one they have together through birth. But this is a stupid idea too. You can love someone else's kid, whether it be a stepchild, a niece or nephew, a foster child, an adopted child, etc. Hell, even a pet because a lot of people I know love their pets more than they like actually people. And love grows. And think to yourself, you had to learn to love your significant other and that wasn't 'forced' through birth or anything (unless you're a redneck, then nevermind). And you work at it every single day. You can absolutely grow to love another as long as your heart is open to it and you're willing to grow with that person. If not, then maybe you need to work on yourself some more. It's not about the kid at that point, but about your own inner demons. But I'm digressing again.
The main point is, you don't have to feel the need to take the cliche "next step" in your relationship and have kids, in order to take the next step in your relationship. Not being ready for kids doesn't make your relationship any less important or strong or successful than one that does have kids. What's important is that you both see eye to eye, work at your relationship every day and have fun with each other and still love one another every single day. Support each other. Focus on your own relationship and strengthening it and celebrating it every single day if that's your priority over kids. And you should. Relationships with your significant other is just as special and important and deserves as much attention. 
I think my mom is just pressuring me because by the time she was my age, she already had 4 kids. But I'm on a different journey and I have different ambitions. For some people, making a family is their dream and their pride and joy. And there's nothing wrong with that other than thinking that it's the only thing in life you should do. It's just not for everyone and I have different dreams, especially at this point in time. I'd rather take my time and simply enjoy being married for now. Just spending time with my husband and sharing moments with him makes me happy. Right now, I don't see that I need anything else nor want anything else to make me happy. I rarely have time with him anyway due to adulting and different schedules so right now I enjoy being selfish and just having him to myself when we do have time together. 

I also don't see this ladder of having to do anything to prove to the world anything about my relationship being successful. I don't need a baby to prove that I made the ultimate commitment to my marriage. Or to use a baby as a method of trapping him with me forever. He's already proclaimed that I'm stuck with him forever because he's got territorial/possessive issues, hahaha.
Nor is there a 'timeline' or list of events I have to do, to make sure my relationship with the boy is real. I may have followed a lot of traditional steps but that's my own thing. I chose to do those things because that's what I wanted. Those are my own values and things I cared about. Everyone is on a different path and this is mine. I cook and make work lunches for my husband because I genuinely enjoy it and I love showing him in little ways that I care. And he does the cutest things back, like buying me flowers just because, taking me to my favorite places, holding my bags for me while I shop, taking me out on ice cream dates while I'm at work and kissing me before he leaves for work in the morning. Don't just count the big gestures on holidays and events that come wrapped in bows. The every day little things are the ones that show that your significant other is listening to your needs and love language. Remember to do the same. 

Speaking of list of events though, there is actually a lot I'm trying to do before the end of the year, I realized. The year's halfway over and not only did I already do a lot but I have a lot more I want to do before 2018 is over. I also lied. I'm not going to be grounded in NY all summer. I'm leaving in about 2 and a half weeks on a small trip to Chicago, haha! I didn't plan this but my friend had some days off at the end of the month and asked me to go and I managed to get coverage for it so I figured why not? YOLO.

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Here's basically what I'm looking to do for the next upcoming months of 2018:

July

  • Parents birthdays
  • Sunflower fields
  • Chicago trip

August

  • Wedding
  • Bronx Zoo

September

  • Lantern Fest / Rafting 
  • Dragcon

October

  • NYCC
  • Wedding
  • Ipsy Genbeauty
  • Disney/Universal for birthday/wedding anniversary

I have a lot to plan and I'm actually kind of worried some of it might not happen because planning is overwhelming. But I know that if I take it a step at a time, sit down and focus, I can plan it all out and get it all done. Maybe next weekend or on my next day off where I'm actually doing nothing and not out with an entire day's worth of adventuring plans. I really need a breather every once in a while, hahaha. But like I said, when it rains, it pours and you gotta ride the wave. I'd rather be busy than not. I mean, how can I complain when my 2018 has been good to me so far? I'm definitely not having a boring year and wasting my time watching it all just fly by. Cheers to the rest of 2018!

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