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Norwegian Joy

May 15, 2022

This was our first time on the Norwegian Joy ship and our first time to Bermuda! We had an amazing time despite all the hiccups and I would definitely recommend this sailing if you’re ever interested in cruising and visiting Bermuda.

That being said, I do want to note the small hiccups we experienced though to be totally transparent for those considering booking a trip. They were minor inconveniences in the realm of first world problems, but they are worth mentioning so that you’re aware.

Boarding

They offer online check-in weeks before your sailing to help expedite boarding check-in at the pier. I did everything as directed when it came to the online check-in but their system glitched for some reason and my husband’s account got caught in the system and didn’t go through all the way. When calling the Norwegian customer service line, they reassured me it was fine, just a computer system issue and that it would be fine at the pier check-in. It totally was when we got there, but the pier check-in line was a different story altogether.

We arrived at the pier check-in around 1. The lines were unfortunately poorly managed and felt very disorganized. It took us about almost 2 hours to get on the ship, which is pretty abnormal. I’ve cruised several times before, twice with Norwegian, and it’s never been this disorganized nor took this long. Usually I’m on board pretty quickly within 30 minutes but no more than an hour.

The security line went fast and smooth but the other two lines were not. I’m not exactly sure what the issue was, but they had one line checking paperwork (passports, covid testing requirements and Bermuda travel authorization paperwork) and another line after that to process check-ins and give you your room card before boarding. Both lines dragged despite having several stations open to check everyone’s documents. We had the most problem on the second line; at one point it didn’t move for a good 20 minutes and everyone on line was getting restless. The staff eventually intervened and split the line, alleviating half of us into the priority check-in line, but their methods was pretty unfair because it screwed over the people who were already on line and were already waiting longer.

When I finally got up to our turn, our agent handled it smoothly and we got our cards within a few minutes so I’m not sure why the line wasn’t moving faster, other than the line being full of boomers who didn’t fill everything out online beforehand so the staff had to manually do it. Was every guest on line this inefficient at getting their shit together?!

Afterwards, we were able to walk onboard no issue. We were able to skip the usual muster drill due to covid and them not wanting to sequester everyone in one spot too long. We went to our room and because we spent so much time waiting to get checked in in the pier, our luggage was ready for us right outside our room. It was easy to spot too because my luggage is so obnoxiously pink compared to everyone’s boring basic black. There was an issue with our room though; we had originally requested a private room NOT having a connecting door. My travel agent had did the room selection part for us so we were confused at the mix-up but upon talking to the guest relations desk, it seems their system does not currently have their rooms accurately in the system to reflect which rooms had connecting doors and which ones did not. It took about an hour for us to get this squared up and find an available room since they had to call each floor and have the floor stewards manually check the rooms to make sure there was no connecting door. While that was getting done, I noticed we had left the dock and the boat was already heading out of NYC. It was a mild inconvenience but all this time spent in the pier and then waiting for our room to get resolved was rather annoying because it delayed the start of our vacation. I had to finish up all my online activities quickly before losing cell service. We missed lunch because of all the time spent taking care of everything and had to wait a few hours before dinner would officially open up.

By 6pm, we were settled in to our new room assignment, all unpacked and headed off to our first meal on the ship, which made up a little for the start. The food on Norwegian is always pretty good and filling and I appreciate their portion sizes are always just right. Especially when you decide to order multiple items both off the appetizer and entrée menu. After dinner, we were able to freely explore the ship and all it had to offer and familiarize ourselves with the layout and where everything was.

On Board

It’s funny because in some ways the Norwegian Joy feels bigger than the Breakaway, the other Norwegian ship we’ve sailed, and in other ways it feels smaller. And in some ways, there was a lot of similarities. I enjoyed the layout of their buffet dining area on the Joy since everything was centrally located close to each other instead of having to walk a full circle on the Breakaway ship to see what the daily selections were. The Joy’s atrium area felt a little less impressive compared to the Breakaway and other ships I’ve been on, but it also felt like they were breaking away from the grand ballroom area to give more room to other things, like having more dining options and more entertainment, so that made sense.

For dining we had a buffet area for people who wanted to dine without being on a schedule or needing reservations. You could freely grab and go whatever you wanted here. They had a decent selection during breakfast, lunch and dinner but I do have to note I prefer the variety offered on the Norwegian Breakaway was better. They had themed food nights which was nice while the Joy seemed to center around the same dishes but cooked in slightly different variations and flavors every day. It was still delicious, don't get me wrong, but I would love to see more variety. My husband was fine with this though being the picky eater that he is. That and the love affair he has with cruise lines and their soft serve machines. He had one at least 2-3x a day, sometimes 2 in the same meal period. But as my brother likes to say, “It's a cruise! You can do whatever you want!”

There were also 3 complimentary dining rooms where you could be seated and order off a menu if you prefered everything made to order. They rotated menus here daily and all 3 dining rooms had the same menu for the day in case one room got full, you could always go to another and still get the same dish if you were dying for it. There was also a few nice complimentary areas for late night snacks and quick bites. The ship also had plenty of bars located all around the ship.

There were several specialty dining restaurants on board too; these are not included/complimentary but an extra fee if you chose to dine here. We stayed with the complimentary dining for the most part to save money since these can be pricey add-ons to a vacation especially when the complimentary dining on board is already pretty good, but we did have a free offer to try one of these restaurants and we used it on the steakhouse which was 👌. The other specialty restaurants available on board were a Japanese restaurant, a wine cellar, an Italian restaurant, a French bistro restaurant, a seafood restaurant, a cute American burger diner with cute vintage car booths, a BBQ smokehouse, and a global restaurant with little plates from all over the world.

My ship had a lot of entertainment and activities for all ages and interests. There was a nice arcade with tons of VR games, a theater for live performances on the ship, a go-kart track on top of the ship, mini-golf, laser tag, of course a pool area with 2 water slides, a spa and salon, a casino area, art gallery, and of course a gym and jogging track which I took advantage of and worked out 3 days on the trip. I spent two mornings on the jogging track and one morning lifting weights in the gym. The jogging track I found to be nice if you ran it in the early mornings when it was more free but later on in the day, they did it away with it by laying down more lounge chairs for sunbathers so it’s a little disheartening it wasn’t a dedicated jogging track like I’ve experienced on other ships. The gym was really nice though with a decent weights area and not just treadmills and bikes. Towels and even massage guns were provided in the area, as well as a fitness expert if you needed someone to talk to about nutrition, goals, etc. They even had a scale to print out your stats like weight, body composition, etc. I noticed behind the free weights they had a dark room dedicated with stationary bikes so it looked like they had their own soulcycle type class setup going on. I'm not a fan of this type of workout but I know a lot of people who do love it so it's nice to see the ship offered this.

We chose to relax, take our time and take it easy this cruise so we didn’t do too many activities while on board. I promised my husband we wouldn’t be rushing from one thing to another like my Disney trips, so I can’t report back on a lot of what my ship had to offer. We chose to spend our time in Bermuda on excursions, mostly in the water each day, since that was the whole reason we wanted to take this vacation. We were missing those beautiful blue waters and Bermuda absolutely delivered.

Unfortunately on the last day sailing back, we were caught in a storm towards the later end of the day and it caused me to feel a little sick because the boat was rocking so much. I do want to note that this was the first time this has happened to me in all of my sailings, and storms are not a common thing to sail through usually, but it did suck because we were looking forward to trying out the VR arcade that day since it was an at sea day to browse more ship activities.

Luckily, we had already drove around on their go-kart tracks earlier in the week when we were docked so we got to experience that at least and it wasn’t dampered by seasickness. That was a pretty awesome experience that made me really miss my Maricar go-kart experience in Japan. I wish more experiences like this were offered in other cities I visit. We also played a round of mini golf on the ship which was really fun. On the last hole we were playing, some little girl picked up Dario’s golf ball and refused to return it til her dad saw and forced her to hand it back, lol. It was a nice time though. I’m thinking of looking for local mini golf places on the island for date nights with hubby now.

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Itinerary

Our sailing had 2 ports of call; 1 day in Virginia Beach and 3 days in Bermuda. We chose not to go ashore for the first port of call, the day in Virginia Beach, due to the Bermuda travel regulations requiring a secondary covid testing before arriving if you go ashore anywhere else before arriving in Bermuda. There wasn’t much we cared to explore in Virginia anyway that we can’t just do on our own with a road trip one day. I wanted to spend my time and money in Bermuda instead, which we ended up really enjoying because of the itinerary for Bermuda. In the past, I’ve always been on cruises where the ship docks at a port for just a day and barely even a full day. It arrives in the morning and leaves that evening. This particular cruise, we had 3 days in Bermuda, which was really nice because it gave us ample time to try multiple excursions and even explore some shops near the dock. I picked up some souvenirs for my sister and even found something for myself. I’m absolutely in love with jasmine and found a local shop that made jasmine soaps, as well as oleander and passion flower and all 3 smelled amazing. I always find it hard to find jasmine scented body products by itself. It's always mixed in with another scent in my experience and usually overpowered by the accompanying scent, so this was really nice to find.

I would have explored more of the island inland but unfortunately the excursions we chose had time slots that didn’t work around a more flexible day schedule to take the ferry boat to a different part of the island and everything closes around 6pm. But alas, we had an amazing time with all our activities, more so than I’ve ever been able to experience on any other cruise simply because we were docked for a decent amount of time. I feel like this will be a big deciding factor in future cruises, as we enjoyed this itinerary aspect a lot.

Excursions

We did 3 excursions, one for each day in Bermuda. We went into this a little apprehensive because we weren’t sure what the temperature was going to be like. The forecast reported high 70s which we were at first hesitant about because we wanted it to be a little warmer for swimming. Admittedly the water was a little on the cold side at first when we dipped our feet in, but once we were in, it began to warm up and feel fine as we acclimated and we found it to be actually perfect. We lucked out and ended up with beautiful sunny skies all 3 days too! Perfect for all our excursions so nothing was canceled.

The first day was kayaking. This was the day my husband unfortunately lost his phone in the water while we were launching our kayaks. We ended up spending a decent amoutn of time trying to look for it in the water with no luck and then had to catch up with the kayaking tour at warp speed before the tour ended. Of course this put a bit of a damper on his day losing his phone but it was still overall a nice day as we had great weather and the water wasn’t too bad to swim in for a beach day. The tour operators were great and Hannah was fantastic, sympathetic to what happened and really helped my husband look for his phone, diving in the water with him.

The second day was supposed to be shipwreck and coral reef snorkeling but our tour operator reported that they found a lot of man o’wars (an animal closely related to the jellyfish and dangerous because of its stinging nature) in the water that morning around the sites we were supposed to visit and gave us the option of getting a refund or taking us on a glass bottom boat tour over the shipwreck area and then giving us snorkel time nearby a coral reef. One of the guests on my tour would later experience first hand what a man o’war sting felt like, as he got stung by a baby one near our coral reef site. Luckily that was the only one in our area and our tour group addressed his sting immediately with first aid and removed it effectively and treated his sting with antiseptic. They were pretty awesome guys taking care of everyone that day and making sure we had a safe but good time. If you ever go, I highly recommend them - our crew was Dylan, Jay and Zeke from Fantasea Diving and Watersports. They were so friendly and their energy was great.

The third day was an easy, relaxing beach day at Horseshoe Bay in the morning before our ship left port at 3pm. It was an early morning but really worth it. It was absolutely beautiful and perfect because there was barely anyone there at that time in the morning, except for a few families. We found a nice nook on the side of the beach to lounge in all morning. It was just really serene and nice. It was pretty much what we were looking for in this vacation, summed up in a perfect photo. I booked a shoot with a local photographer for a quick shoot on the beach that morning and he showed us how to climb up a cliff for some epic views and amazing photos. If you ever go, I highly recommend Dion. He was a pleasure to work with, friendly and accommodating on such short notice and and flexible with my last minute location changes. And as a local, he knows all the best spots!

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Special Offers

Because of covid, obviously cruises are not selling out like they normally would, so a lot of cruiselines are offering incentives to cruise. Our booking came with some nice offers, but I definitely recommend you looking into the fine print of the offers before booking to avoid getting surprised like I did. Our offers were still a good deal, I just had different expectations than what was given because the way they word it in the package is vague but makes you think you get more than you actually do.

Our offers were:

  • FREE open bar - this is their regular beverage package, not the top shelf stuff which is a different package. This didn’t affect us too much since we’re not big drinkers to begin with but since we got it for free, we did take advantage of it some days. It was nice to have, even for soda and coffee.

  • FREE wifi - this makes it sound like free unlimited but it’s actually just for 150 minutes, which isn’t a lot especially since they throttle their internet, making it slow. This is the fine print shit I’m talking about. And when you log in, it tries to upsell you their unlimited plan. Sneaky, sneaky.

  • FREE specialty dining - this was actually a good offer but also another fine print thing. It’s just for one specialty dining meal per person. We picked the steakhouse and it was a great offer covering $200 worth of food including appetizers, steaks, salads, dessert and drinks. The food was really great too here compared to the steaks on the main dining room.

  • FREE excursions - this is another fine print item. It’s just $50 off and not a lot of excursions are $50 besides the beach day transfer.

  • FREE on board credit - again, just $50 on board credit per person.

Overall, the offers were still a good value and great for our trip but again, the wording is just very poor to obviously entice you in to booking. I wish they wouldn’t do that because then you’re a little disappointed when you find out the stipulations/fine print. I’d rather them be transparent and upfront so my expectations are correctly aligned.

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Overall we had a great time on this cruise and I would love to return to Bermuda the next time I’m itching for another getaway to crystal blue waters. I thought you had to go all the way to the Bahamas and be further South to see them but alas, Bermuda is just as amazing and beautiful. And bonus, it's closer than the Bahamas too! I really enjoyed how empty this cruise felt too, not being a full capacity. Although I do have to note that Norwegian has always been really good with their cleanliness and preventative healthcare/safety on board even before covid. I sailed with them for my honeymoon back in 2014 and going through old photos, back then they took care of everyone making sure health surveys were filled out prior to boarding, had hand washing stations everywhere and always encouraged you to wash your hands before entering a lot of areas singing the “washy washy” song. Honestly they are pretty damn good when it comes to cleanliness and customer service. Everyone makes you feel like they'll take care of every issue you have while on board. There’s nothing they won’t do to make sure you get what you need. Our cabin steward incessantly checked on us a million times every time we passed him in the hallway even though I kept telling him we didn’t need anything. It started making me feel bad, like are they flogging you back there if you don't ask me a million times?! But seriously it was nice to receive that level of service. We’re not extraordinarily needy people but I can imagine other guests can be more difficult and that's why they try to give 300% to make sure you're happy.

And also a big thank you and shout out to my travel agent Jill Kuritz of Never Grow Up Vacations. She booked this sailing for me 34 days out and took care of everything and even sent a nice fruit basket up to my room which was a nice surprise as well as provide additional cruise credit in addition to the special offers I received. Of course you can always book the same trip yourself but if it comes with extra perks and you don’t have to be on the phone booking it yourself and calling them every time there’s an issue, it’s a no brainer letting someone else take care of it. It makes for a much more stress-free vacation and it’s one less thing to worry about. I love booking all my trips with them because it gives me more peace of mind knowing everything will be the way I want and expect it to be.

I can’t wait till my next vacation but unfortunately I’ve run out of vacation days from work so we’re going to have to cool it for the next 4 months. Hopefully by fall, I’ll have accrued a decent amount of time again and I’ll be able to head to the West coast for Halloween this year! I’m looking forward to Oogie Boogie Bash if all goes well and living out more of my Malibu Barbie dreams as well. Until then, I’m going to try and have a fun summer on the island here at home. Cheers!

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Selfish

May 12, 2022

Hello from Bermuda!

Just kidding! We got back from our cruise earlier this week. We had a fantastic time and I'm working on a blog about our experience but in the meantime, I wanted to share something about my trip in its own post.

One of the things I really enjoyed about this past trip with my husband is the alone time we had with each other. And I’m not just talking about the sex. We don’t get a lot of time to spend together, like I’ve been saying lately due to opposite work/life schedules, and this trip was purposely all about us spending more time together, no interruptions of any outside factors distracting us, no trying to savor every last minute before work or whatever of every small window of free time that we overlap with each other. It was 100% undivided, uninterrupted time with each other. We weren’t on our phones scrolling mindlessly through anything either (especially since he decided to inadvertently donate it to the Bermudian waters, lol), which I really love about vacations that force us to unplug because no cell service. We weren’t worried about work. We weren’t paying attention to the news. We weren’t preoccupied with other crises going on elsewhere. I tend to worry a lot, as my husband observed of me, and a lot of times things that are not in my control. I worry about everyone in my life, whether or not I can help them. I worry about a lot of things, whether or not it affects me directly. Sometimes I hate being an empath. It makes it hard for me sometimes to relax and just enjoy things without feeling guilty. I also need to stop worrying about my “productiveness” and just enjoy rest days and relaxation time. I limited my workout times to maximize our us time to spend with each other. On a boat with limited access to the rest of the world, we were just able to be us and focus on us and nothing else mattered. And it was really quite nice, as selfish as it sounds.

I said it earlier this year too how one of my goals was to take a trip just the two of us again and this trip was absolutely perfect for us to further intensify our connection and work on strengthening our relationship.

We got the opportunity to sit down and talk about a lot of things, share a lot of things and really catch up in each other’s lives, get into each other’s heads about our goals and where we want to see our lives going, and make sure we’re on the same page when it came to us. I love that. I love that I was able to express myself and tell him what I wanted and see eye to eye on the things I was worried about. He was able to open up and share with me the things he wanted me to work on. Neither of us are perfect and we’re always still learning to understand and speak in each other's love languages. I love that we were able to have that line of communication. It's a truly sexy thing when you have that connection with someone you love, especially someone you're absolutely crazy about. It's such a turn on for me when I feel seen and understood by someone I love and that they are really listening and paying attention to me.

One of the conversations we had was about how we both are still on the same page when it comes to kids. One of my personal lessons I've learned in my life experiences growing up is that all families look different. They don't have to be biological and they don't have to look like another person's tribe. You don't need to have children to “start” or “have a family.” Your family does not need to be a biologically built one to be an actual family. You can be born into one yes, but you can also choose who you want to call your family if your biological one is toxic or simply not meeting your emotional needs for love and growth. I am fortunate enough to have a lot of people in my life both friends and my own family members that I feel I already have a family without need of adding a little one to the mix. And even just the two of us together, as cheesy as it sounds out loud, is that not a family? When I got married in 2014, I said maybe in 5 years. And then I kept pushing it off because I didn't feel ready. I still don't feel ready, and now it's been 8 years and yet I still don't have that motherly urge my peers seem to have and rejoice in being a mother. I don't envy any of my friends and family who have started their families. Is that weird? When I see them post their photos celebrating milestones and memories, I feel happiness for them, but I don't feel longing for that life. But I wonder sometimes if it makes me odd for not wanting that. Is there something wrong with me? And at the same time, I feel perfectly fine with where my life is at the moment. I always think that's great for them if that's what they want, but it's not what I want. (And then my mother likes to come along and remind me where is her grandkid, lol.) But seriously speaking, I’m at absolute peace with where we’re at currently and really enjoy our life and my marriage.

It’s funny because right before I was about to write this post, @grlwithbangs shared a brutally honest post too about why her and her husband don’t want kids yet as well. A lot of their reasons resonated with me and this past Sunday, driving on the way home from the cruise, I had mentioned to him too that the cruise made me realize I have two very strong conflicting emotions in me, which he said he absolutely understood and it made me feel so good because like I said, it’s just an amazing feeling sometimes when you feel seen.

What I said was that spending time with him this past week intensified two things. The first is that I do truly love my husband so much that he's the only one I would want to have children with. (It's not that I don’t. There are many reasons behind why we haven't yet and they go beyond that.)The second is that I also love him so much that I don’t want to have children because I don’t want to lose this time I get to spend with just him. I really don’t. I cherish all these special moments we have with just each other. These two conflicting feelings live within me, and at the present moment, the second one outweighs the first.

I watched the few families on the boat and they intensified how much I would love to see my husband as the cutest and sweetest father ever to our child because he’s just so darn sweet and cute with kids. I think he would make an amazing father. I really do. I have no doubt that we would rock the parenting thing, even with its trials and tribulations. But at the same time watching these families, I didn’t envy the parents but rather appreciated how I wasn’t one. We were able to have the room all to ourselves, our own privacy without worrying about the health, hunger, safety of a child and making sure they were entertained/content. We could choose to do any activity we wanted; meal times, shows, movies, excursions, go kart racing, mini golfing, etc. without having to worry about the logistics of a child being included. Whether we had all the things we needed in a diaper/child’s bag, leaving extra time to get ready and leave because children schedules can take longer, temper tantrums, whether or not they’ll enjoy the activity, have enough to eat, etc. We could take as many late night walks as we wanted, stay up all night watching movies, pig out and do dumb shit, sleep whenever we wanted. We only had ourselves to worry about and as selfish as it is, it’s a wonderful thing.

To quote @grlwithbangs’ post, these were her reasons;

  1. We’re enjoying life together & extremely happy as is!

  2. We have tons of goals…that we want to accomplish - not that having a baby won’t stop us from accomplishing those goals, we want all of our attention/focus on growing.

  3. Totally selfish right now and that’s OKAY! Putting ourselves first, spoiling each other, our relationship is stronger than ever…

  4. Pregnancy can take a serious physical toll on my body. Not being negative or putting bad juju out there - I’ve just been told by numerous drs & I am not ready to put my body in this situation.

  5. …we rarely see each other IRL due to our careers…

  6. Children don’t fit into every lifestyle & we love ours rn.

  7. We love sleep & our sex life lol.. Even though we already don’t sleep much.

  8. We actually don’t really need a reason at all. After all, our personal choice as to what we want to do with our bodies are just that, personal.

The last reason was actually perfect. In a world of traditional timelines, unrealistic expectations and societal pressures, we need to break out of asking people when they're going to get married, when they're going to have kids, when they're going to ABC. As if not reaching these milestones make someone less valued. It's ridiculous. If something is not your journey, why should others impress that upon you when they are NOT the ones living your life? It's because people are nosy and ultimately unhappy with their own lives so they seek dictating someone else’s for their entertainment. It's usually compensation for what they lack. Misery loves company. They don't like to see others doing better than them, especially on a different, unique path. In my experience, these people seriously need therapy. Fortunately, I don't care about what's going on in these people's lives as much as they care about ours.

I absolutely love living my selfish life with my husband. I really do. I love every minute I get to spend with him just sitting staring into the sunset, getting ice cream, taking a million photos, watching dumb movies or even just sitting and talking or doing nothing.

Maybe that will change. Maybe one day, a year from now or another 5 years from now, that feeling will change. We’re also allowed to change our minds if we ever do decide a child may be for us. Or even something else. A different path. Who knows?

What I do know is that we are simply in a stage where we enjoy being with each other and I'm happy to be in love with someone as ridiculously obsessed with me as I am with him.💖

Here’s to many, many, more adventures with the cutest hubby ever.💖

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In Love, Life, Married Life, Relationships, Vacation Tags love, relationships
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Cherry Blossom 10 Miler

April 5, 2022

I discovered this race back in 2019 serendipitously while shooting cherry blossoms with a friend when I was visiting DC. We were shooting at the Tidal Basin early to avoid crowds when I heard a lot of cheering. Then I saw a throng of people stampeding through the roads and I realized that’s why the roads were closed that morning and why my Uber driver had a hard time trying to find a spot to drop me off. I Googled it and found out that it was an annual run held in DC where you literally run through all the cherry blossom blooms along the trail of the Tidal Basin. I was intrigued. I immediately texted my girl Kerri who always does all the runDisney Princess runs with me and we agreed to sign up the next year. We got in the lottery that December and were all set to run it Spring 2020.

DUN DUN DUN.

And then Covid happened. The race was cancelled pretty much the week after everything shut down around the world that fateful week in March 2020. It was literally 3 weeks til the race and I was pretty sad about it because I was looking forward to it all year after witnessing this phenomenon that spring before.

Fast forward to today. It would be 3 years from when I first stumbled upon and discovered the existence of the cherry blossom before it would return.

But alas! I finally got to run this race, this past Sunday and it was a great experience!

It was definitely different from running a Disney race that’s for sure. It was a different atmosphere, with much more serious runners than I’m used to in the Disney crowd. I’m not exactly sure yet if I enjoyed it or felt too intimidated by it. I definitely felt like I had to push harder and felt compelled to never stop at all during the course, except one time for a much needed sugar pick-me-up when I spotted a free beer and Oreos stand. I grabbed three, scarfed them down and felt so much better. I’ve never experimented with cookies before as one of my race fuels but it really made me feel better and helped recharge me to finish out the last leg of the course.

The sad part is the bloom was very early this year and a few days before this race, a tornado came through and wiped out a bunch of the blossoms so a lot of the trees in the area were looking rather sparse. Most of the course wasn’t very scenic to run through, considering the whole race is themed around literally that; running through cherry blossom blooms. Luckily though, the last 4 miles of the course running through the East Potomac park had a decent amount of trees still in bloom which made for a beautiful trail to run through, especially for the home stretch leg of the race.

Those last miles definitely were eventful though. Between mile 7 and 8 was where everyone’s favorite stop was, the free beer and Oreos stand, which literally had pre-poured cups of beer for everyone and literally trays upon trays of free Oreos in different flavors and everything. These were provided courtesy of a local brewery, which was pretty cool of them to do.

A little after mile 8, though, I witnessed something pretty crazy. I saw a little red medic looking golf cart with the curtains down and saw there was someone in a stretcher inside through the curtain panels. And then a few feet in front of the cart, I realized there was a girl on the ground, her face eggplant purple and medics doing chest compressions (And sadly, this wasn’t the first time I was witnessing this happening. The day before in Capitol Hill, after dinner on our way to the metro to head back for the night, we saw a man on the ground surrounded by EMTs and police with a device administering chest compressions. We found out later the man did not make it when we looked it up later that evening.) The girl looked fairly young too. I was in a bit of shock after seeing that but I had to keep going. There was enough people already around her helping and this didn’t seem like a race you could really stop in without getting trampled because it’s literally full of serious runners compared to my past races. Although I worry that might have been what caused this young girl’s unfortunate situation-being a serious runner and pushing too hard. I hear it all the time.

“Listen to your body.”

“Rest when needed.”

“Slow down.”

And you know for the most part, I’m pretty bad at all that. I worry a lot about overexerting myself. I do try to slow down when I feel like my heart is racing too fast, which happens from time to time, but less frequently ever since I started being more active. I’m always conscious of my cardio health because my mom has a heart condition. One of my friends, who is also a runner, went into tachycardia after finishing his race a few years back, collapsing right next to the medic tent luckily enough and was rushed to the hospital. They did emergency surgery on him and now he has forever has a device implanted in him that will shock his heart back to life if it happens again. To me, these things are very scary and very real especially witnessing what was happening to that girl with my own eyes. It’s a grim reminder I need to take care of myself. I need to listen to my body and its needs. I need to slow down. I need to rest. I need to stop overdoing it and wanting to get too many miles in and causing myself to be prone to injury and then not letting that injury heal before my next big run. I need to stop taking my health for granted. I need to practice more gratitude for what my body can do, for what it allows me to do. For allowing me to move everyday and carry me through so much. As much as I worked on my physical health in the past few years, I need to also work on my mental health and stop thinking negative thoughts about myself. There is still a lot I have to work on, on myself.

But I digress. This race was a rollercoaster of events and emotions. After mile 9, I reached the bend where I had discovered this race all those years ago. There was a HUGE crowd of spectators at this bend, cheering everyone one, firing off confetti sticks, blasting music and pushing us to finish the last mile. It was the push I needed after witnessing mile 8’s incident. I raced through to the finish line and was so happy I finished this. Although I do have to say, this finish line was not as exciting and cool as a runDisney finish line, by far, lol. And the reunion area was much more chaotic. The medals were in an area far from the finish line and it was very odd that you had to pretty much go chase them down. I’m used to Disney where they just hand them to you as soon as you cross that finish line. I swear, I’ve been spoiled by the mouse. It’s true what they say and I can finally attest to it. There’s no race like a runDisney race and now I know why those races cost more and why people keep coming back.

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Make no mistake, I still had a great time and would love to come back and run this race again, especially when the blossoms are in peak bloom. Plus DC is just beautiful in general so I enjoy coming back to visit and enjoy the views. There’s still so much I want to see and do in this city, but also still waiting for it to open up so I can do them, like the White House tours, tour of Congress, the many, many great museums and visiting embassies and trying their food. And food, let’s not forget food. I had a great time this weekend trying different restaurants and dessert spots! I walked alongside the Tidal Basin for a photoshoot, then walked from Georgetown to Capitol Hill, on top of the 10 mile run the next day, then limped all over the National Mall for vain medal pics, and then continously tortured my poor legs dragging them all the way to brunch and then the White House, getting in a total of 28.7 miles and 57,324 steps this weekend.

I’m not the fastest runner by far, but I still enjoy getting out there and seeing what I can do, while my body still allows me to do it. Despite feeling intimidated by all the ‘real’ runners this weekend, I still want to continue doing this. It pushes me to keep going and to have fun with it.

I realized how fitting that the race was a cherry blossom run, given this weekend and all I witnessed and experienced. Cherry blossoms are symbolic of spring - a time of renewal and rebirth of everything. But they also represent the fleeting nature of life, and how everything can quickly change, especially since their bloom is so short lived. The race, just like cherry blossoms was eventful with all the things I ran past, symbolic of how life goes up and down so fast you can’t keep up sometimes. But you just have to keep going. It reminds me of the lesson of the cherry blossom in Memoirs of a Geisha.

We must not expect happiness…
it is not something we deserve.
When life goes well, it’s a sudden gift, it cannot last forever.

I learned this weekend that we have to keep moving on, moving forward, but we also have to remember to enjoy life in the present. Don’t live life so fast that you forget to have fun and just enjoy things. Allow yourself to be happy when it does happen.

And as cheesy as it sounds, like my girl Cassey says, find the joy in fitness! My husband has started running with me again for the spring and I can’t even begin to tell you how much joy it brings me. It’s the little things in life, truly.

Up next, two race events in Central Park and then our Bermuda trip at the end of this month!

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    • Jan 26, 2019 Road to Disney Princess Half Jan 26, 2019
    • Jan 23, 2019 Ways to Love Harder Jan 23, 2019
    • Jan 15, 2019 Madame Vo NYC Jan 15, 2019
    • Jan 12, 2019 Highlights Jan 12, 2019
    • Jan 7, 2019 New Year, New Me Jan 7, 2019
  • December 2018
    • Dec 31, 2018 Goals for 2018 & 2019 Dec 31, 2018
    • Dec 25, 2018 My Christmas Wish Dec 25, 2018
    • Dec 15, 2018 Winter Fashion Dec 15, 2018
    • Dec 10, 2018 Bullying Dec 10, 2018
    • Dec 6, 2018 Santa Baby Dec 6, 2018
    • Dec 4, 2018 Anime NYC 2018 Dec 4, 2018
    • Dec 3, 2018 Motivation Dec 3, 2018
  • November 2018
    • Nov 29, 2018 Breakfast At Tiffany's Nov 29, 2018
    • Nov 28, 2018 Mickey: The True Original Exhibition Nov 28, 2018
    • Nov 27, 2018 Thanksgiving 2018 Nov 27, 2018
    • Nov 22, 2018 Highschool Sweethearts Nov 22, 2018
    • Nov 20, 2018 Disney World 2018 Nov 20, 2018
    • Nov 13, 2018 Dirty Thirty Nov 13, 2018
    • Nov 12, 2018 OMG Dessert Goals Nov 12, 2018
    • Nov 11, 2018 When It Rains, It Pours Nov 11, 2018
  • October 2018
    • Oct 17, 2018 Ipsy GenBeauty 2018 Oct 17, 2018
    • Oct 16, 2018 NYHS's Harry Potter: A History of Magic Oct 16, 2018
    • Oct 15, 2018 NYCC 2018 Oct 15, 2018
    • Oct 14, 2018 New York Magic Lab Oct 14, 2018
    • Oct 3, 2018 Pumpkin Season Oct 3, 2018
    • Oct 2, 2018 Disappointed. Oct 2, 2018
  • September 2018
    • Sep 30, 2018 RuPaul's Dragcon NYC 2018 Sep 30, 2018
    • Sep 24, 2018 Human's Best Friend Sep 24, 2018
    • Sep 18, 2018 Right Where You're Supposed To Be Sep 18, 2018
    • Sep 11, 2018 Nine Eleven Sep 11, 2018
    • Sep 10, 2018 Candytopia Sep 10, 2018
    • Sep 9, 2018 Color Factory Sep 9, 2018
  • August 2018
    • Aug 28, 2018 Winky Lux Aug 28, 2018
    • Aug 23, 2018 The Weight Monster Aug 23, 2018
    • Aug 12, 2018 Bucket Lists Aug 12, 2018
    • Aug 8, 2018 Christopher Robin Aug 8, 2018
    • Aug 3, 2018 Mine Aug 3, 2018
    • Aug 2, 2018 Chicago Aug 2, 2018
  • July 2018
    • Jul 22, 2018 Stressed Jul 22, 2018
    • Jul 19, 2018 Rosé Mansion Jul 19, 2018
    • Jul 13, 2018 Heavenly Bodies & Whipped Cream Jul 13, 2018
    • Jul 11, 2018 When It Rains, It Pours Jul 11, 2018
    • Jul 4, 2018 America, The Beautiful Jul 4, 2018
    • Jul 3, 2018 Pint Shop Tasting Session Jul 3, 2018
  • June 2018
    • Jun 27, 2018 Butterflies Jun 27, 2018
    • Jun 26, 2018 North Shore Farms Jun 26, 2018
    • Jun 24, 2018 Pride Jun 24, 2018
    • Jun 21, 2018 Weekend Adventure #20180616 Jun 21, 2018
    • Jun 18, 2018 NYCC Jun 18, 2018
    • Jun 15, 2018 Summer Fashion Jun 15, 2018
    • Jun 13, 2018 Happy Go Lucky Jun 13, 2018
    • Jun 9, 2018 The Egg House Jun 9, 2018
    • Jun 8, 2018 Best Friends Jun 8, 2018
    • Jun 7, 2018 The Pint Shop Jun 7, 2018
    • Jun 6, 2018 ; Jun 6, 2018
    • Jun 5, 2018 Weekend Adventure #20180602 Jun 5, 2018
    • Jun 2, 2018 Prom Jun 2, 2018
    • Jun 1, 2018 Intro Jun 1, 2018
  • May 2018
    • May 31, 2018 Bonjour! Konichiwa! Ciao! May 31, 2018

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View fullsize Cherry blossoms have come and gone, peonies are blooming right now and lavender is up next! I love this time of year.🌸
Photo: @rchong_photo
Costume/wig: @janthraxx 
#Shampoocosplay #ranma½ #ranmashampoo #ranmacosplay #ranma #shanpu #animecosp
View fullsize I'm thinking Shampoo just might have to make an appearance this fall at NYCC! I thought I was just going to repeat some cosplays but I might have a couple of new ones up my sleeve as well as bringing back some OGs.🌸
Photo: @rchong_photo
Costume/wig:
View fullsize Shampoo is my favorite from the Ranma series. I've been wanting to cosplay her for a while and I finally got to cross her off my list this spring.❤️
Photo: @rchong_photo
Costume/wig: @janthraxx 
#Shampoocosplay #ranma½ #ranmashampoo #ranmacosp
View fullsize Can you tell who is the oldest? Who is the youngest? Age differences? Who is adopted? Who is mean and who is super nice? Which one of our parents we look like more? 
#sisters #sisterlylove
View fullsize When I was a kid my mom wouldn't let me leave the house except for school. So I never had play dates or went over anyone's house. I wasn't allowed to have a social life or friends because "I gave you siblings" and "I am your friend.&qu
View fullsize Happy Birthday to my twin sisters @insta_trami and @sundayfundae!!! 🎂🎈🎁🎉🥳
We all just signed up for next year's challenges and I'm so excited that ALL my sisters will be doing the 5k race with me next year for the @rundisney Princess race weeken
View fullsize Where can we sign up for our fast pass for our next Disney trip?! Asking for a friend.🏰🧚🏼‍♀️✨
We're on the hunt for a magical summer since we have no plans to travel for a while.
View fullsize Despite a 12 year gap, I've always been close with my baby sis, pretty much since she was born. When I left for college, I promised her I'd come home for Halloween to take her trick or treating. I searched the whole damn mall when she wanted Hamtaro
View fullsize Happy Birthday to the baby! Once upon a time you were so small. And now we're the same size and you're stealing all my clothes and shoes. Which only works bc I dress younger than I am and you're always trying to dress older than you are. Mom's two op

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