Chicago

I took a quick trip to the Windy City this weekend. This was my first time there and overall, I would say I had a good time. It was really nice to spend time with my baby sister and my two bridesmaids/best friends. It's nice to spend time with your friends when you're older because adulting doesn't allow for a lot of time with each other so it's even nicer when you guys can go away together, even if for a quick minute. It's also really nice to experience new places, new foods, new things with the important people in your life. It really is about spending time and making memories with them, and making the most of things. It makes a big difference between a good trip and bad trip, as long as you have great company. 

So. Chicago. I have some good impressions and some bad impressions from my trip. I also went into it not knowing much about the city or the area so it was definitely a fresh experience. I hit up mostly touristy spots for the gram to make for some nice photos. I also tried to do as many free things as possible since I'm on a budget to save for Disney. Luckily, Chicago was pretty budget friendly, in my opinion. 

Getting Around
The CTA is their public transportation system of buses and trains. Their system is actually built pretty well layout-wise and all trains connect at the heart of the city called the Chicago Loop. I found this to be superior to the MTA in NYC. Having a central hub allowing you to transfer to any line is really helpful. Paris and DC was like this too when I used their transportation system. Unfortunately, for being such a great city, NYC is really archaic in the way our train system is built. For example, Brooklyn and Queens are right next to each other, but to get from one point to another, sometimes you have to take the train all the way through Manhattan to get there. This is really a waste of time to have to travel through another borough when it's literally  next door. But for Chicago, I found pretty much any place I needed to get to, relatively easy to navigate.

Google Maps was pretty accurate too in giving me times of the next buses and trains. Everything was pretty closeby too after getting off my bus or train. Chicago is actually a relatively walkable city compared to NYC. They did have delays and re-routing of trains so it's not entirely superior to NYC, but rather comparable. 

The prices were actually not too bad, only slightly cheaper than NYC base fares and a 3 day unlimited pass only ran me $20, while in NYC, they did away with the funpass, with the minimum being a 7 day unlimited for $32, which isn't terrible but isn't great when you don't plan to be there for an entire week but just a few days. The CTA offered 1, 3, and 7 day passes which are great for travelers. Their 7 day, is actually also cheaper than NYC, at $28.

Another thing I appreciate is, unlike NYC, Chicago's CTA is connected to their airports, making it easy for travelers to get to and from the airport. NYC sucks at this. We don't have a direct line to JFK or Laguardia. 

The Food
I tried their famous deep dish at Giordano's, the hot dogs at Portillo's, bbq at Chicago Q, and had brunch at Maison Marcel's. Also tried Chinatown's noodle soup, Fuh, and their Halal guys location in Chicago.

The deep dish was good, but I don't consider it deep dish. It was basically eating a casserole. We ordered pasta, salad, mozzarella sticks, cheesy bread and a deep dish pie at Giordano's. It was a long day of traveling and we were pretty hungry. The pasta looked good in pictures but when it came out, it became another IG vs reality moment. It wasn't as good as it looked nor tasted as good. I found it rather bland and had to add extra parm and pepper to spice it up. The salad was good though and I couldn't stop munching on it. The mozzarella sticks and cheesy bread was carb heaven. The deep dish took longer than expected to come out, which is funny since we had ordered it way before even being seated. When it got out, we were already loaded on everything else so it was hard to finish. 

The hot dogs at Portillo's were pretty good. I never thought to eat them with anything but ketchup but now I think my perspective on that has changed, hahaha. It tasted so much better with mustard, relish, celery salt, onions, tomatoes, and pickles. Now I only want to eat it this way. I only bought one but I should've bought another. I was afraid of not finishing it and then I didn't want to make another order and get judged by the girl working the pick up counter. 

Chicago Q was good too, albeit the service was particularly slow. The waiter recommended the buttermilk chicken but warned us against it because of the longer wait time because the restaurant was changing over from brunch to dinner and starting a fresh new batch. We were under a bit of a time crunch since one of my friends had to leave for her flight right after so we ordered other items on the menu instead, hoping that it wouldn't take that long but I think we ended up waiting 30-40 minutes anyway for our food to come out. At that rate, I should've ordered their signature buttermilk chicken anyway. I felt bad because the waiter was upset too. I watched him walk back to the kitchen several times and yell at them because our food took so long and then on top of that, they had forgotten some of our sides so he had to further berate them. Their kitchen is slightly open with a window for us to view part of it so I could see the interactions between the wait staff and chefs. There were so many people back there so it didn't really make any sense for our food to take so long when the restaurant wasn't even that busy. I also wanted to sit outside too in their cafe style seating because it was so pretty but they didn't have enough seats available for our party. We ended up inside the restaurant right next to the kitchen so I could see everything coming in and out. Despite the service, I would recommend this as a stop, so long as you're not in a rush, because the restaurant itself is really nice, with all its rooms as well as outdoor seating. The food is good and the place is very clean; even the bathroom is nicely maintained.  

Maison Marcel was probably my favorite place to dine. It was actually our first stop in Chicago after checking into our hotel. We stopped for brunch and it didn't disappoint. It was next to a different brunch spot called Mortar and Pestle, which the nerd in me would've loved to try simply because of the name, but Maison Marcel was much prettier and instagrammable. I ordered a little bit of everything because I love a nice spread for the gram. Everything was delicious, from the drinks to the pastries to the entrees. The decor was absolutely darling and our waiter was great. I wanted a particular table and they easily accommodated our request. We chose this restaurant because of the rosΓ© wine sampling from the RosΓ© Mansion came from here. My friend enjoyed it so she wanted to stop by the restaurant since it was based in Chicago. It was really lovely for our first stop. I would definitely recommend this spot if you're ever in Chicago. 

Fuh was an interesting restaurant as well. It was a create-your-own bowl of pho style restaurant. Kind of like Chipotle meets pho. We were there late as it was our last meal of the day and the owner was really nice and still served us even though it was near closing time. I really appreciate shops that do this instead of refuse to serve you or rush you out. It's the little things that help create good business.

And of course, I can't visit a city without making one ice cream stop! We stumbled upon Cone, an Irish ice cream shop, as my bus drove by it on our way to one of our locations, so we backtracked it afterwards and it didn't disappoint. They have a lot of unique flavors! I had the Netflix and Chill and it was so good. 

The Sites
Our itinerary was nonexistent since it was such a spontaneous trip. I ended up looking up on the internet the best places to photograph in Chicago and picking those as our stops. It was basically another gram tour like I do here at home in NYC. Except since it wasn't as strategically planned route-wise. I was all over the place but the CTA helped in this case in getting us everywhere we needed to go pretty easily:

- John Hancock Observatory (360 Chicago)
- Cloud Gate (the bean at Millenium Park)
- The Chicago Theater
- Skydeck at the Willis/Sears Tower
- Happy Place
- Big Monster Toys
- Navy Pier
- Lincoln Park Zoo
- Chicago Cultural Center
- Buckingham Fountain
- Chinatown
- Wells Kinzie garage

Some places were recommended by friends, and others I found looking up on Pinterest and IG. I also found really great tips on the best places on Google reviews as well! For example, my friend recommended me to visit the John Hancock building but to go to the bar instead of buying tickets to bypass the line. When we got there, the line to get into the elevator wasn't too bad (compared to Skydeck later on) and we were up there pretty quick. The line to get a table for drinks, however, was daunting so we didn't bother waiting. Another tip on Google recommended to go straight to the ladies room and it didn't disappoint! One of the best views of Chicago is actually seen from a bathroom! The bathroom has huge ceiling to floor window view of the south side of Chicago, which was beautiful. 

Another great tip I found on Google was the Wells Kinzie garage. It's literally just a big parking garage but if you go to the 7th floor and look out, you get a beautiful view of their trains in an S curve in between the buildings. It looks like something out of a movie. It's a popular spot, according to the really nice security guard that works there and helped show us the best spots to view the trains at as they came and went. 

One of my favorite spots was actually just a door. A fake door, actually. I saw it on Pinterest and looked into it and wanted to stop by and see it for myself. It's absolutely adorable and makes for such a fun and cute shot for the gram. It's a cute door at Big Monster Toys that's free to view by the public because it's literally just there as you walk by the street. I almost missed it because I thought it would be secretly hidden for some reason in an alleyway but it's just right there in the open. I don't know how people take such crazy pictures hanging off of it or sitting on it though since it was hard enough hanging on. It makes me want to put something similar in my house one day when I have a kid. My funhouse of a house, hahaha. 

Another really beautiful spot was the Lincoln Park Zoo. It was a different experience from other zoos I've been to, in the regards that not only was it free, but that it was very open and you could come and go as you pleased. There were multiple entrances and you simply just walked in and out, there was no gate or security checkpoint or anything. You could bring in your own food, or even a cooler full of food for a picnic. It was very family friendly and easy to wander around with no issues. This felt really liberating because I'm so used to so many restrictions and security checkpoints back in NY, but it also is a bit of a concern that they are so lax in security. But I guess there hasn't been any incidents for them to have to reconsider much. 

We also visited Happy Place, because surprise surprise, my life is full of pop ups and instagrammable experiences. It was an interesting pop up and I did enjoy it, but similar to the LA MOIC, it's located in a big warehouse, however, unlike MOIC, it was not well ventilated. The space, although big, did not have proper air conditioning so you could feel yourself start to overheat minutes into the experience. The rooms were nicely done and the staff were really nice and helpful. They even had instagram husbands on staff to take your photos for you in front of the pot of gold ball pit. If they didn't think your photos came out nice enough, they would even offer to let you redo the jump, which was nice. I wanted more time in the mirror "XO" room but a lot of people kept getting in the way since they didn't know how to properly walk around the space and stay out of other's photos so sadly what should've been my favorite room, was a fail. There were definitely a decent amount of rooms and different spaces for photos but I'm not exactly sure how they all connect. I know it's supposed to be a "happy place" but the rooms felt very random at times, with not much connecting each other. The label "Happy Place" is just too vague. It seemed like they just used that name to title someone's vision of randomness to make some quick money off of Instagrammers. Not a bad idea, obviously because I definitely fell for this IG trap, hahaha. I think Rose Mansion still tops the list, though. The best bang for your buck and the quality and time put into it surpasses them all. 

One of the most beautiful places I visited was actually the Chicago Cultural Center. It's a free building to enter and explore and the architecture and everything inside it is just beautiful. It's definitely something to look at. There was even an art exhibit going on at the time, featuring Keith Haring, whose work I recognize all over NYC. They had an art table set up for you to draw your own art and stick it on the wall. I wanted to draw a dick but my sister made me be civil so I drew ice cream instead. See if you can find my drawing if you stop by. 

One of my most underwhelming spots was actually the Skydeck, sadly. I had high hopes for this, after seeing so many great photos of the spot, but alas, my own experience was dampered by the super rude and unfair treatment by security. I was there at 10am, which should've been okay but for some reason, the wait that day was particularly bad. I don't think we got up to the top there till noon and when we finally got there, we were rudely treated by security. I don't know what it is with people against DSLRs but the minute they saw ours, they started kicking us out. There are 4 boxes at the top in which you can sit in and view Chicago from. 3 of them are not monitored so you can take as long as you'd like but you also have to share the box with other visitors. So of course, the line for these will naturally be a bit of a wait. One of the boxes, however, was timed and monitored by the staff. They take a picture of you with their equipment and then, supposedly give you a few good seconds to take your own selfie before moving on to the next guest. I watched and monitored all the guests in front of me and saw each person was able to take a good 5-8 photos each. I saw a family of 8 take several single shots of each person and then a big group one. I saw a group of 5 friends take selfies by themselves and then a group photo. So I anticipated I should have been given the same time and treatment. When I got to the box however, I instead opted to take our own pictures, not burdening the staff monitoring the box so all he had to do was stand there. A big black woman came up to our booth as I stepped into the box and before I could even pose, she yelled at us to get out and that our time was up. I still stayed for a quick 5 seconds until my friends could take photos and then told them to do the same since we had JUST GOT THERE, which I also said out loud. She continued to bother us further till we left quickly but I found her treatment of us really rude and unfair. Everyone else before us was not ushered off so rudely and aggressively. Unfortunately I don't think my photos came out very well from this part of my trip, which was a total letdown since everyone highly recommends this attraction. I was really turned off from Chicago after this experience. It left a bad taste in my mouth after being treated so poorly. 

The other remarkably bad experience is the amount of drunk and high homeless people I encountered. On one occasion, we weren't even on the train that late, it was only about 8-9pm and unfortunately we got on a bad train that ended up stuck in between stations for a good 10 minutes due to track delays, and the car we were in, had an extremely intoxicated and drugged up drunk man. He kept circling the car and then sat down next to my friend and got up in her face while singing. This was a horrible situation to be stuck in. I didn't know what to do since the trains were stuck in between stations and I didn't know how to open the doors to enter a different car. I eventually got my group up and moved to the other side of the train to sit near other non-intoxicated people. But then he followed us and continued to bother us further. Another passenger tried to step in and diffuse the situation and get him to leave us alone but then the drunk guy started antagonizing him and it looked like he wanted to swing at him and fight him. I started getting worried. I didn't want this guy who was originally helping us to get hurt for helping us. Eventually the train pulled into the next station and we changed cars but it was truly an uncomfortable situation to be in, in a foreign city. This was just one occasion. Throughout the course of the next 3 days, we encountered more and it wasn't even just the time of day or the neighborhood we were in. We were in busy, well populated areas in daylight and they were still present and obnoxious. I've never had this problem in NYC in all my years of being there, and then in 3 days in Chicago, it was rampant. 

Overall, I didn't let the bad experiences damper too much on my trip. Despite what happened, my opinion of Chicago remains the same. It was a nice city to visit, but I wouldn't want to live here. I also feel it's a one and done city for me. Like I don't feel the need to go back like I do with Japan, and LA. I'm not saying I won't ever revisit, but it's not very high on my list to do so. It offered beautiful skyline views but other than that, there's not much that's memorable enough for me to want to come back. Alas, Chicago, you are beautiful but I didn't fall in love. Other cities have made me want to cheat on NY and move away to them but Chicago is not one of them, unfortunately. 

Stressed

Appearances can be deceiving. Instagram is simply a highlights reel of your life, and simply what you allow others to see. My IG story reel though, actually allows me to be a little more honest and a little more transparent with my life since it's raw footage of my life when I post sometimes, no photoshop or smokes and mirrors in videos. Not that I'm hiding anything or whatever, but I don't want to be that "you looked better online" person. But I'm also not ashamed of what I look like, with or without makeup. 

The point is, just because you don't see it happen online, does not mean it doesn't happen. Just because people look like they're having a good time all the time, does not mean they don't struggle. You don't see the blood, sweat, and tears. You don't see the hard work, the hours that go into something. The planning, the time, the effort. Everything. You don't see EVERYTHING that happens. And it's exhausting. 

I don't like when people automatically assume life has been easy. Everything has been handed to you. Your life is good. There's nothing to stress about. It's simply not true. And I don't like when people try to compare either. It's not about comparison. It's not a game of "well, at least you don't have to go through _________" or "You think you got it bad? Well, this happened to me." You can't compare shit when you can't understand or relate or empathize 100% someone else's fight. It's an insult. Everyone is on a different path. Some may have it harder, definitely, and some people are on a completely different kind of struggle. It doesn't make it any less of a struggle or less of what they had to go through. 

Sometimes I wonder if my stress is my own fault. I mean, a good chunk of it is. I always seem to take on more than I want to handle because of my reckless nature. I make decisions on a whim sometimes instead of giving myself a minute to think things through thoroughly and carefully. I don't realize til too late I might not be able to handle it all. And this is how I ended up where I'm at, at 29. 

Yes, I'm turning 30 this year. It used to scare the shit out of me, but as I grew older and closer to the age, I started to come to terms with it and it doesn't feel as bad as it sounded 5 years ago. I accomplished a lot of what I set out to do, but it has also gotten me into a lot of debt. And because I made a lot of stupid, reckless decisions, I'm dealing with the consequences and trying to keep my head above the water. 

I wish I knew more about colleges when I first started. Maybe I wouldn't have chosen such an expensive private school. But I wasn't thinking about the massive student debt problem or how college is a scam with all their fees, tuition sticker prices, and bursar highway robbery bait and switch malarkey. I didn't think about how I was going to have to pay it all back one day or how long it would take. I didn't even think about hey what if I don't find a job right away. I simply lived on the mentality that life would just work itself out. 

I also didn't know anything about buying a house, paying utility bills, taking care of your own property, living completely on your own and dealing with mishaps as they occur, like your power going out, being out of heating oil, dealing with busted water pipes, a cold house in the dead of winter, an overflowing toilet and a broken bathroom, etc. You learn as you go along. Unfortunately, these are very expensive lessons. 

Same with buying and owning a car. All the mishaps that come with it, maintenance, dealing with terrible dealerships that don't come through after they sell you the car, the loan payments, etc. 

Bottom line, adulting is hard. And there's no manual. And not everyone is going to help you. There's also no "rosebud" or "motherlode" cheat. Sometimes you're dealt the hard cards. Sometimes a lot of hard cards. The IRS might decide to fuck you over and take more money from you even if they're the ones that fucked up. And sometimes, that accident that your insurance covered a few years ago, might come back to bite you in the bite and the other insurance company might try to sue your ass and your insurance company is just like "well, this sucks for you, you're on your own!" Sometimes the job you put hours and days and months of dedication into, instead of spending time with your friends and family, will turn around and take you for granted and try to kick you to the curb and accuse your ass of stealing and send LP after you because someone else in the company wants to throw you under the bus because he wants to prove to the DM that his dick is bigger. 

Whatever it is, sometimes it feels like you're not where you want to be. And it's taking forever to get there. And patience of all things, is a hard thing to learn. 

I wish I was turning 30 and thriving and on top of the world. I wish I was debt-free already like some of my college friends. But I was too ambitious, too soon. I graduated, got engaged, planned a big wedding and was intent on buying a house that same year I got married. While I still had a car loan and my student loans on top of me. The loans game feels so stifling sometimes. It gets to be really stressful because I feel like it's holding me back from a lot of things. Not like I want to have kids just yet, but I feel like that holds me back from starting the family I would ideally like to have. I don't want to raise my kids in an environment where I'm struggling to make my bills on time. Kids are like another 18 year loan on top of house, car, student loans. 
Back to the Instagram misconceptions too. What you see is the cool places I visit and the yummy foods I eat. But what you don't realize even though I show this too, is that I don't go on those adventures as often as you think, but rather I'm working out at the gym 5-7 days a week, working at my civilian job 5 days out of the week, and eating the bland, cheap, healthy for you tasteless foods during that time.

Life isn't always glamorous and I'm not always "eating good." I kicked my ass into gear for 6 months to lose the dreaded 20 lbs that was weighing me down into my depression. It wasn't easy and I struggled a lot through it but I had to be my own motivation and guiding light through trying times. 

And from time to time, I struggle to pay my bills and keep on top of it. I'm trying to juggle a lot financially and for a time last year, I was trying to support two people on a one person income so it was a little challenging as one of us went through a career change. It was a lot to handle, and I honestly was afraid I wouldn't get through it. 

I stress a lot and I get through it, but it doesn't mean it makes it any easier each time and each hurdle I go through. 

I wish I was at a better spot financially at my age but at the same time, I need to stop and think about the bigger picture and not worry about my debt too much. I need to give myself credit for what I've accomplished so far. I worked hard and put in a lot of blood, sweat and tears to build my empire. It's not as big as it could or should be but I need to be patient and learn that things will come to me in due time. 

I hope that even with my stress and debt, I can somehow afford to take the dream vacation I want for my birthday this year. I was really stressing it about it all week planning because I realized I shouldn't have said yes to this reckless Chicago trip I'm taking in a week. I should've planned Disney first and crunched the numbers so I could budget it out, plan and realize how much I needed in order to handle it. And the problem is I don't want to compromise on anything for my birthday. I know I can easily afford if it I went with a cheaper option, but I really don't want to compromise my dream. The problem with being a Scorpio as well as a dragon, is that once you have a vision of what you want, you don't back down from it. And you know sometimes what you want is unreasonable, but here you are. 

I really want to wake up in a room full of balloons for my birthday, open my curtains and have Cinderella's Castle right outside my window. This is my ridiculous birthday wish. 

balloons

RosΓ© Mansion

I visited the RosΓ© Mansion this weekend. I was actually supposed to be attending National Ice Cream Day hosted at the Pint Shop but after my experience at their tasting session, I decided to exchange my tickets for a new pop-up instead. I didn't want to experience more or less the same of what I already did twice. I figured the experience isn't going to be any different so why waste my time. $38 for a ticket was a little steep considering I knew what the space and experience was going to entail. The San Francisco location would've been better considering it gave you access to the museum. But the Pint Shop unfortunately is a very pint size version of the museum experience, for the same price. I figured my time would be better spent trying and discovering new places so I opted for the RosΓ© Mansion instead.

I actually heard of it from another Instagrammer, @urbanbling, who suggested it to me. She's an indie designer who does custom Swarovski strassing for your shoes and accessories. She actually worked on my first ever pair of Loubies that I decided to blow my first big girl paycheck on when I first graduated pharmacy school back in 2012. I still wear them to this day, with their most recent appearance in Paris with me at the Eiffel Tower, and they still hold up pretty well. Honestly, I think she did a better job than the store strassed version. The crystals shine brighter and there are less gaps in between crystals so they shine and glitter a lot better. Anyways, she's also a local New Yorker and visits pop-ups and desserts spots so our adventures often coincide with the same destinations. We're forever hitting up places #forthegram. 

The RosΓ© Mansion is a new pop-up in Manhattan based on rosΓ© wine. It's another interactive art installation similar to the Museum of Ice Cream and the Egg House. (I know, I know, I still owe you guys a Museum of Ice Cream blog.) You start out on the ground floor and walk up a beautiful staircase to the 'mansion' where you learn about how wine is made and the different types. There are samplings of different wines throughout the rooms as well as different backdrops for your photos. Tickets were $45 and like all other experiences similar to this, are timed ticketed experiences sold on showclix. You have to buy tickets in advance and online only. You can't get in at the door without one. What's notably different about this pop-up as well, is that since it's alcohol themed, you need to be 21+ to enter, so ID is required. 

To be quite honest, I'm not a big drinker. Actually I don't drink at all, unless I'm at a wedding with an open bar then I'll get a cocktail because I'm already there and it's already paid for. But other than that, I rarely drink. I don't because waste of calories and not my cup of tea, honestly. Plus I bloat like crazy and gain weight pretty quickly from it. But I'm a sucker for these instagrammable experiences which my husband likes to call IG traps. I was pretty much there for the gram and nothing more. I did taste some of the rose available at the exhibit though. 

Before the RosΓ© Mansion, the Museum of Ice Cream was my favorite pop-up thus far. Right now, I would like to say the RosΓ© Mansion ranks right up there, if not better. The only thing really winning me still is the sprinkle pool but I would definitely have to say the RosΓ© Mansion might just blow it out of the water.  What's notably different is the quality of the rooms and how much work and detail is put into each. There is definitely enough rooms and instagrammable opportunities to pique your interest. I would definitely say compared to other pop-ups and prices I've paid, this one is the best bang for your buck. Especially since they're serving you alcohol and 8 different types. There's also a station where you can 'create' your own rosΓ© by mixing different wines. What I definitely liked is that not only were there enough rooms to make this experience worth it, but that they put pretty much equal effort into each space. Some pop-ups, one room is really great and the rest are mediocre or just afterthoughts. This was the case with the Sunnyhues Happy Go Lucky exhibit I went to last month. The Diamond room was the piΓ¨ce de rΓ©sistance and the rest was just leftovers. But at the RosΓ© Mansion, nearly every room was carefully curated, I'd say. They also serve you enough wine throughout the tastings to amount to two glasses, but I think you can easily get more if you really wanted to. You can go back and forth to as many rooms as you'd like, unlike the MOIC, where you can only go forward, not backward. If you would like a little more of a certain wine from one particular room, I don't really see them denying you. And the amount they pour into your glass is a pretty decent amount too. 

The only negative I have to say, is not about the actual space, but about other attendees. This exhibit was definitely targeted more towards women and girls like to attend these things in big groups obviously for cute photos. Which I have no issue with, since I travel a lot with a big entourage when I'm around adventuring in the city. I knew what I signed up for so I understood that with exhibits like these, there will be lines and you have to be patient to wait your turn. In the swing/bathtub of roses room, there was 2 groups in front of me, one with about 6 girls and the other had 3. So you can see that both groups will take a bit of time before I can get to either photo op. The group of 6 girls was obviously taking longer since there was 6 girls total. When I finally got the swing set, they were still in the bathtub and the line was starting to grow even longer and more impatient. There was a really rude girl on line 4-5 people behind me screaming NEXT! NEXT NEXT! every 5 seconds. No one else was really being rude except her and even the girls in front of her looked embarassed as she tried to passive aggressively move the line along. She wasn't even a worker, just another impatient Instagram hoe. I get it, I'm slightly annoyed that I have to wait to, but instead of identifying the group that was causing the hold up and directly approaching them, she was rudely screaming NEXT! NEXT! NEXT! to me. I looked directly at her and shouted back "I JUST GOT HERE" and I guess that got her attention since she finally left and shut the hell up afterwards. I took my time and moved along thereafter. What I found out after from girls on the line behind me was that same hoe was being a hypocritical bitch and ended up holding up the line when she got her own chance at the bathtub. My only critique is that there should've been a worker there to help maintain the line and usher people along if there is a line forming but also diffuse people from getting rude at other attendees. Not for nothing, I shouldn't have to rush my own time just because the group in front of me took longer. I paid the same ticket price as any other IG hoe so I'm damn sure going to take my time.

Besides that I enjoyed this experience a lot, and despite not being big on alcoholic beverages. I would and could definitely recommend this experience if you're in the city this summer. It's easy to get to as well. It's basically right next the NY Public Library at Bryant Park. I had a lot of fun with friends and family taking photos.

The rest of the weekend feels like a blur despite being less than a week ago. I stayed at the Arlo Nomad this weekend, courtesy of my best friend Kerri. She was supposed to be in NYC this weekend to hang out and catch up but there were last minute hiccups and she wasn't able to make it. Unfortunately the room was nonrefundable so she passed the room onto me. The Arlo Nomad is a very minimalistic hotel when it comes to rooms, but still very clean and beautiful. It's perfect for solo travelers and young couples. It reminds me of the simplicity of Japan actually. I looked at photos on Instagram before I got there and fell in love with photos of girls waking up in NYC with a beautiful view. I was disappointed when I got there and realized the beds weren't actually pushed up against the windows like the photos misled me to believe. But then I realized that no hotel is really like this but that all the models move the beds themselves for the perfect shot for the gram. So you bet your bottom dollar I did that same thing. Having strong friends when you travel with an entourage helps a lot, hahaha. It was really something to wake up to the next morning though. Falling asleep with the Empire State building was really beautiful too as it was lit up in red, white and blue like a firecracker popsicle. I purposely left the curtains open so I could see the view as I woke up and it was just grand. It's funny how you appreciate these things later in life. I always had NYC at my fingertips but only now am I appreciating it for its beauty. The Arlo Nomad also had a bar at the top floor with a glass floor overlooking the streets of Manhattan. I enjoyed this as it was a taste of yet to come of the Skydeck in Chicago, which I leave for in about a week. I'm excited to see that. 

I also attended my first SoulCycle session, which my friend Kerri had booked for us but was nonrefundable so I had to go experience it without her since I'm Asian and don't like things going to waste. My impression? OMG, it was so overwhelming. It was intense! And then I find out from another friend who SoulCycles religiously that the teacher of my class was known for being intense. He's good but he's intense. Well that explains it. I thought I was going to die, hahaha. I bike at the gym but this was like being on a bike from hell. It felt like it was never going to end. It's funny how you could get into shape but still suck at another thing and feel so out of shape from it. There's so much to fitness than people think. There's always something new to learn and experience. I don't know if I would go back to SoulCycle on my own. I was seriously intimidated, hahaha. I couldn't even figure out how to get off the damn bike cause I couldn't unlock my shoes from it. Man, I'm such a noob. 

We had brunch at Union Fare on Sunday before the RosΓ© Mansion so I could finally experience it since we only had dinner there last time and I can definitely say this experience was much better than last time. There was no rude host and the waiters were super friendly and attentive. The food was delicious. I enjoyed their artisan Eggs Benedict and smashed toasts. I finally ordered their Fruity Pebbles croissant but was too full to finish it after the rest of the food. I took it home to eat the next day and it was delicious! I would definitely stop by again if I'm in the area. Everything was so good and fresh. 

I also finally visited and walked the Brooklyn Bridge. Another anomaly of things I had yet to do, despite being in NYC my entire life. It's a long trek but definitely worth it. I would like to go back during the day to photograph it as well. Maybe in the early morning to avoid crowds. The night views are really something though to see the city all lit up. It's beautiful. Sometimes I hate NYC when I visit other countries, and then other times I remember it's still beautiful in its own way. 

Oh, New York City. I'll always be a New York girl at heart.